Selling Your Home (Without the Panic)

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Selling a home is a mix of logistics, legal steps, and very human psychology. The easiest way to stay in control is to treat it like a simple pipeline: prepare, price, market, negotiate, go unconditional, settle.

Note: This is general information, not legal advice. Talk to a solicitor or licensed conveyancer before you sign anything.

1. Choose how you will sell and set your non negotiables

How you sell
Common methods include auction, deadline sale, tender, fixed price, and price by negotiation. Each changes how offers arrive and how much leverage you have at different moments.

Who helps you
Even if you sell privately, most sellers still use a solicitor or conveyancer to manage the legal transfer and settlement steps.

Your non negotiables
Before marketing, decide:

Your target price range and your walk away point
Preferred settlement date window
Whether you can offer vacant possession
Which chattels are included (whiteware, heat pump, curtains, garden shed, and so on)

This is where Stephen Covey would quietly nod in approval, but we will keep it practical.

2. Prepare the property and your information pack

This is the stage where Kiwi pragmatism wins. Fix the obvious stuff buyers will notice in the first 30 seconds: peeling paint, sticky doors, broken latches, messy gutters, tired lawns. Then build a clean information pack so buyers do not have to chase you.

Common items to have ready:

Title details and a chattels list
Rates information
Building documents you have (plans, warranties, renovations, certificates if relevant)
A plan for buyer due diligence (for example, how quickly a LIM can be obtained, or whether you will share one)

You are reducing friction. Friction kills momentum.

3. Price with evidence, not vibes

Pricing is where sellers often get ambushed by their own brains.

A useful behavioural lens from Daniel Kahneman: loss aversion makes us feel a potential loss more intensely than a gain, so sellers can cling to a higher number because dropping it feels like losing. The market does not care about our feelings, only comparable sales and buyer alternatives.

Practical pricing inputs:

Recent comparable sales in your area and school zone
Current competition (what buyers can choose instead this weekend)
Your property’s condition, layout, and risk factors (sun, dampness, access, parking)

4. Market the home so buyers can decide quickly

You want buyers to think, “I get it” in seconds.

Marketing essentials:

Bright, honest photos (tidy, uncluttered, curtains open)
A simple floor plan if you can
Listing copy that explains the value in plain language (sun, flow, storage, parking, upgrades, location benefits)
Viewing plan (open homes plus private viewings for serious buyers)

5. Manage enquiries and run viewings like a system

Treat enquiries like a funnel:

Reply fast
Provide the same information pack to everyone
Keep notes on buyer interest and questions
Make it easy for serious buyers to submit a written offer

Most “maybe” buyers disappear. Your job is to remove obstacles for the “yes” buyers.

6. Negotiate and document everything in the sale and purchase agreement

In New Zealand, the sale and purchase agreement is a legally binding contract. You should assume that once it is signed, changing your mind can get expensive.

Key things typically negotiated:

Price
Deposit amount and timing (often around 10 percent, but it varies)
Conditions (finance, builder’s report, LIM, sale of another property, and so on)
Settlement date
Chattels included
Any specific clauses (for example, repairs, access for further inspections)

Tip: Do not rely on “we talked about it”. If it matters, it goes in the agreement.

7. Conditional phase: help the buyer tick boxes, then go unconditional

If the offer is conditional, there is a defined period where the buyer completes checks. Your role is to keep the deal moving:

Provide access for inspections quickly
Answer questions in writing
Track key dates so nothing drifts

Once conditions are satisfied or waived, the agreement becomes unconditional and both parties are committed to settle.

8. Settlement: the legal transfer and the handover

Settlement is where the ownership change is registered and the money moves. In New Zealand, legal documents to record changes to titles are lodged by practitioners (lawyers and conveyancers) through the land transfer system.

Typical settlement tasks:

Your lawyer coordinates the discharge of your mortgage (if any)
Funds are transferred between banks and trust accounts
Title transfer is completed
Keys are released, usually after confirmation that settlement has occurred

9. After settlement: close the loop

A clean finish looks like:

Cancel or transfer utilities and insurance
Redirect mail
Keep records for tax and future reference
Hand over any manuals, keys, remotes, and codes in an organised way

A simple timeline to keep in your head

Many sales follow this rhythm:

Week 1 to 2: prep, pricing, marketing assets
Week 2 to 5: live marketing, viewings, offers
Week 3 to 6: conditional phase, then unconditional
Week 5 to 10: settlement (varies by agreement)

Your actual timing depends on method of sale, buyer conditions, and settlement date.

Common mistakes that cost sellers money or time

Overpricing and then chasing the market down
Vague chattels list (creates fights over what stays)
Slow responses to buyer questions during conditional phase
Messy presentation in photos and open homes
Treating the sale and purchase agreement like “just paperwork”

Final thought: sell with clarity, not chaos

A home sale is not won by secret tricks. It is won by reducing uncertainty for buyers and running a calm, repeatable process.

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